2 month recap

Ugh. I am horrible when it comes to detailing the events of us being together. So, I will do my absolute best to pick up from where I left off and write about some feelings, some events, and where we stand 2 months after becoming official.

• We have celebrated our first birthday! I turned 28- holy mess. Im even with you. Not only did I get a new sonicare, my very own set of golf clubs in a purple bag :), some sweet oakleys (that you worked so hard to bring to me, bless your heart),4 dresses and a new vera bag- but the best beach trip ever. I had a lot of fun just being with you and hanging out. Thanks for meeting my friends as well. Ok ok I will admit that I had a lot of fun going out- getting pretty to go out, dancing and peeing in a public bathroom with you- do you remember that? You told me not to sit and I peed all over the seat ( I never sit, but I wasnt watching this time). I had a lot of fun- maybe not so much alcohol or any the next time, but you have some pretty sweet dance moves. Again, you are the hottest guy where ever you go. No one will ever compare. You have the best eyes ever. Oh- and a killer smile. Oh- and you have an amazing chest. PS- those arms are the best place on the planet. Enough with all that. Thanks for making my week extra special. You went above and beyond what a guy is supposed to do for a birthday. I will never be able to match that!! But- all in all- it was a much needed and great vacation. Time for us just to be us- with no Milledgeville screaming down our backs.
  
• 2 months and you are still here. ??????? Are you sure everything is fine? I think we are at major comfort levels with each other. I peed IN THE BATHROOM WITH YOU IN IT for crying out loud. Yeah, that whole modesty thing, gone out the window. Our conversations have moved deeper and our hearts have poured out more in 2 months than either of us have in a long while. I know I can tell you anything- even if it is stupid. You still listen. I love our late night pillow talks we have when we should be sleeping. It is just really easy to talk to you and I want to let you know about everything in my life. If I talked to God as much as I talked to you, I would be on the right track. I am working on that now. Talking to God more and spending more time in his Word. I hope you do the same. I want you to love God more than you could ever love me- because then you will be the Godly leader you need to be. Make some time to get in your Bible and read it. Search for words on your Bible app. Thats what I do. If I need motivation, I search for motivation. If I am upset, I search for an answer from the Word to get me through this. I want you to hide God's word in your heart so you can bring it back up when you or someone else needs it. I need that encouragement from you. I need you to seek out the Lord before you seek to make me happy. Find some alone time- and those are the things you dont have to share with me. Those are the precious times that God has ordained for you and him. I just want that relationship with the Lord to carry over to ours and you lead because you are immersed in the Word. That you stand up and defend it. That you are being transformed and your mind is renewed (Romans 12:2).  Get in your Bible- do the 15 minute minimum. I promise it will not only change you, but change our relationship for the good. I love you babe.

• What else have we done? Your parents seem to like me. Your mom calls me all the time asking questions and just wanting to talk. Do you know you are her favorite? By a long shot. She worries about her baby. I hope she knows that I am taking care of you.Your dad always gives me big hugs when we leave, so I will take that as a sign that he likes me too. My parents love you and ask about you all the time. You have won my momma over thats for sure. They love your dogs too. It has been a hard year with Winnie passing, my eyes fill up now as a think about her. I miss her a whole lot and a part of me died with her. I wish you could have met her. 8 months and my baby girl has been gone from here and it still hurts just as much as it did the day the vet called me. I say all of this to let you know that I still miss that dog more than anything and I am not sure if my heart can ever heal from that devastating blow- but I do love your dogs and I am glad they get excited when I come in. No, they arent replacing her, just here to help me with a new chapter of my life. Im glad you arent here watching me type this, because the ugly cry came out.
   
• I havent made you homemade peach cobbler yet, but brownies (the past 2 times were real), chicken parmesan, and lasagna have graced your plate. You are still alive, so I count that as victory in my book.I would cook more, but these schedule changes have got me out of it. Prepare your pallet for some carnitas, meatloaf, and whatever else I can think of.
  
• Thanks for always putting gas in my car. I do appreciate it, I do like riding in the truck sometimes though- just for future reference. I like to be with my man in his truck. Makes me feel safer for some reason- and I feel like you get to show me off more in a truck than you do the crave ;)
  
   
• OH! You got a promotion. Promotion from First Class Trooper to Corporal! Way to move up the chain the quickest love. I knew you were a smart one since date one. Im so proud of you for chasing your dreams and not giving up on them. Truly inspiring. I have sewn on your patches- stripes- on your shirts and thought sometimes frustrating, it is just cool to see how God works things out. I took a sewing class to make cheesy decorations and aprons. Never did I ever think I would actually sew something that mattered. I love you babe, so proud of you Corporal Pope.
  
   
• We go to the gym together and thats cool. It is nice to actually have someone who wants to motivate me instead of just telling me what to do. Thanks love.
   
• I still get butterflies when you take me out to dinners. I dont know why, I guess that is love. I love you a whole lot. Thanks for being you- and no one else. 
  
  That is a good recap for now. I am certain a whole lot more has happened in a month and 7 days from the last post, but that is a good start to get me back on track with this thing. I <3 U
  

4 weeks

4 weeks to the day that we have been together. EEEKKK!

In a matter of 4 weeks we have:

• decided this was IT.
• planned a wedding
• picked out wedding stuff
• bought things together for our house
• been shopping for you some new church clothes
• been to dinner with my closest of friends- who love you
• been on 2 really fantastic dinner dates Aubri Lanes and The Cheesecake Factory
• Rented a hotel room- what?!
• Been to the ER ( I want to look back at this and laugh, but right now, still not funny)
• Cried to each other over past relationships and those gone far too soon from our lives
• Ran an early morning run (keep me motivated?)
• Been to a Braves game
• Spent countless hours talking- please dont ask me to remember about what- but I loved every minute of it
• Had to make major decisions regarding our churches
• Had a 60th bday party for your dad
• Had a busted cheek, a semi broken wrist, and some killer bruises- all from you might I add
• Laughed so hard at the other's goofy-ness- and still havent left
• Prayed together- you have no idea how much this means to me.
• Been completely honest with each other- and I hope that never stops. I can tell you anything- and that is a great feeling.
• Taken an amazing bubble bath :)
• Pulled 2 gray hairs- BAHAHAHAHHA sorry!
• And fallen more in love every day.

I hate to leave you this weekend, but I know those huge sexy amazing comforting arms will be there when I get home. Take care of my baby girl- :( and give the boys my love. More than yesterday and Less than tomorrow Kbaby- I love you most.

What day is it?

Now you are singing a Lifehouse song aren't you? Baby- I don't know what day it is on this love calendar, but I do know it has been 3 weeks. THREE WEEKS AND OUR LIVES HAVE CHANGED FOREVERRRRR. Forever ever. Foreva foreva.

I just want to make a few bullet points to catch us up to speed. Whirlwind!

• We have been saying I love you for 3 weeks.
• When you kiss me, I lose my breath every single time.
• Watching you cook dinner has been a blessing to my soul.
• Watching you cut grass while I am working out makes me hopeful for our future.
• Getting funny texts from you brings a huge smile to my face.
• Just hanging out in the same room with you is enough for me.
• Spending time with the Chis makes me happy.
• The way you look at me- drives me crazy. In a good way.
• We have started planning a wedding. Like for real? Hey I just met you- here's my ring size- marry me maybe? I dont know what we are doing- I just know I dont want to do it with anyone else.
• I love the way you smell. Even your morning breath has a distinct smell that I dont mind.
• I love YOUR laugh. It is so big and so real. And so country.
• I like washing dishes with you.
• The sweet kisses I get on my hands are wonderful.
• I love your hair. Even the short sides. But not on your chest. Or there.
• I love how you eat healthy- and I didnt have to wage WWIII to get you to this point.
• I love the excitment you get in your eyes when we make plans.
• If you dont stop kissing me with your hands wrapped around my face- I am going to turn into a puddle from melting.
• When you say "Baby" in your official voice- like when I tease you- oh I laugh so hard.
• Thank you for clearing the dogs out of the bed.
• Thank you for trusting me with the boy pups.
• You do light up my life like no one else. I am so excited to see where our future takes us. You are the best thing. Oh I love you so much.

Day 9

6/29/12

If I could say only one word to talk about the night we had: I am just going to say "spark-filled". Yes, that is one word, see the hyphen???!

Back track- Today was a big day. WE decided that I didnt need to move to Wilkinson County and that I needed to be close in town, for various reasons, but I secretly know it is because I didn't want to be that far away from you.

For the first time, looking at places on my own didnt feel right. I wanted you there with me, guiding me and giving me advice and protecting me from living somewhere awful. When I had to look at that loft alone, I already knew I wasnt going to live there. I want you to have a say in what I do. I walked in that place and immediately wanted to cry. Is this it God? This is what you have for me? This is awful God- and the door could be kicked in really easily. I sent you the video just to hope that you would share some of my pain and tell me to do something different. When you replied just walk away from it- my tears resided and my heart beat came back to normal. Oh praise Jesus that God hears the heart of the brokenhearted!! You truly cared for me and could sense that I didnt feel safe through some text written words. You didnt even have to hear my voice and you knew something wasn't right. Kevin, I am so grateful for that.

I like how you "get me" when I know I dont get myself. So on to some more calling and panicing. Somehow in the back of my mind I wanted to listen to you and believe that what you were saying was going to be made true, about it working out and something would turn up, but I couldnt bring myself to it. I just knew I wasnt going to find something and leaving the "Ritz" was going to be the worst mistake ever. God proved me wrong, just as well as you.

It was SO comforting for you to come look at that townhouse for me and with me. To know that you spent a lot of time trying to get here quick to protect my decision made me feel oh so extra special- and that I was worth something.

When you said pull the trigger baby- I knew you had my best interest at heart. And then you said "It is only temporary". Kevin- Im glad you didnt lean in close to hear my heart- because it was running away wild. You dont even know me- but you know you want to spend the rest of your life with me- trying  making me happy. And the first step in that was making sure I felt safe. Thank you for doing that for me.

I just want you to know that Friday night was the BEST date. I will admit I was incredibly nervous and that my tummy was rumbling because of sheer nerves. Waiting on you to get there was so awful. I felt like I was 15 again. A school girl with a big ol crush getting picked up to spend time together with a BOY. Too much! You made the waiting worth it. Man- if I havent told you- you are beyond attractive. So dreamy and so freaking hott. Your shoulders surely set you apart. You looked so handsome. And the cutest part? That you wanted me in the middle. Oh, that is a first. I am glad it was both of our firsts. The details of this date can be described as:
it felt so right, I am so overwhelmed that you would kiss me in public- and at the dinner table. I smiled the entire time. Even in the funny parts (you missing your mouth a few times), I didnt want to be ANY where else with ANY one else. You made me feel like I was the only girl on the planet, seriously. I had your complete attention and it was so sweet. My crabcakes and asparagus were truly amazing- but only because of the wonderful man I was sharing it with. Thank you for a perfect date night Mr. Pope, let's do it again real soon love.

Later that night- I see another sweet side of you. You moved a truckload of my crap into my new place and everytime you put a box in the new place, there was a sweet kiss waiting for me when I came in. You will never know how much this meant to me- that you ask me on a date a week earlier and the next you are willingly moving me into a new apartment. Kevin, you are an amazing man. I am so glad God put this life in order and that I can be next to you. Thank you for a fun night of getting dressed up and actually being made to feel like I was pretty- and for making that hour and a half the best talking time ever. Thank you for moving my stuff so late at night. Thank you for holding my hand on the ride home while I was about to drift off to sleep. Thank you for praying for us. So excited to call you mine!

Day 8

6/28/12

I have really got to start keeping up with this and get back on the right day! Stop swimming around in my head so I can think clearly!!

Baby, I honestly don't remember anything but that we had a "phone free from blowing up" night. You looked at me and said- what is this? A silent night? -oh baby I am so glad that you love me- even when I bring a lot of suitcases backed to the brim baggage.

Your smile could light up the darkest place- I know this for sure because I have experienced it first hand. That smile has set my heart ablaze and brought the good out in me. This smile has found me in my weakest point and turned my quivering upside down frown into a bubbling over big as Texas smile. But- there are other parts that bring out things in my heart as well. Those sweet and loving eyes hold my gaze and dont ever lose sight of me. Those big massive hands hold on to the tiniest fingers and hold my face tightly when you kiss me like I am the best thing. Your shoulder has been a welcoming landing place for my head and my broken heart. They hold me up when I feel like giving up.

The best thing about you? Oh, your sweet touch. I dont have to search for it- I most assuredly dont have to beg for it. It is always within reach when you are in the same room as me. When you pull me from my side of the bed into those incredible arms- to when we are in the car and you just feel the need to sweetly kiss my hand. Your touch on the small of my back gives me the notion that you arent going anywhere anytime soon. You move whisps of hair out of my face just so you can get a better view of me. You hold onto to my small hand and wrap yours around every corner- just to be next to me. You will never know what this touch has revitalized in me.

Oh, you bring out the love in me. Seriously- I forgot what this was like- but THIS is so much better than any other- because it isnt forced and you truly want to be next to me. Thanks for a great night of just hanging out and loving and talking. I am so grateful you are a cuddle buddy!

Day 7

6/27/12

Wednesday. The middle of Bible school. The middle of the week. I don't remember much about the day, I know we texted and all that jazz ;) then I went to Bible school and then we had another crazy night. Ag. It hurt my heart to see you hurt. It hurt me to know that I was hurting you and didn't really realize I was. You are so strong- you have no idea how much I value that. You are very different than me. Much more easy to get along with- and way more understanding. To know that you were inside praying for me while I was outside dealing with stuff that should've been dealt with a long time ago- meant the world to me. Oh, it melted my heart. Thank you for your calm demeanor and your rationale. I dont have those things all of the time, and I am very grateful to have you to bring that to my life.

Thank you for holding me. Thank you for listening- because you did not have to. Thank you for staying and not running away like you had just seen a ghost. I know I can be a lot to handle- and it isnt just sometimes. It is ALL the time. I have a pretty high bar of expectations for myself and when I miss it- it gets pretty ugly and the ugly cry comes out again. One of my biggest fears in life is that I won't be the person that I want to be. I won't be successful. I won't make a difference. That I will keep on settling and this "settle" will be the thing I hate most in life but cant get away from. That I will keep being a disappointment and hurting people who love me. Failure is hard for me to accept. Please understand that. At any given time you can pull a handful of emotions out of me. I used to suppress them. Oh gosh- now they just come on out like a bunch of clowns in a clown car at the circus. You never know what you are going to get- sorry!

Oh how blessed my heart is to have you. When you look at me, something is different. Your eyes pierce my soul. They look into the depths of me. They see hurt and they see a lot of shame, but never do those eyes get stern or fill with rage towards me. They also light up when I walk into the room. They beam and get huge when you hug me. They follow me around the room- and you thought I didnt know this. Those eyes are where I find a lot of comfort. Though I may cry and never look at you when I am upset- And I have a permanent hole in the bottom of my lip from having to check my emotions, I know those eyes love me unconditionally. You have seen me in the mornings- and woken up next to the crypt keeper and didnt run. Maybe we should get your vision checked now that I think about it? Thank you for seeing me at my worst- but choosing to see the good in me that I sometimes dont know is there.

Since I showed this to you yesterday 6/28- I hope that when you read this, you fall more in love with me- and that we are made stronger. Sometimes it is really hard to verbally say what I want to say to people-I say things without thinking about the choice of words- or the impact they will have on someone- so writing helps me get it out exactly how I want to say it. I hope you read this and see a different side of your girlfriend. I love you babe.

I will write about the 1st time you told me you loved me and kissed me on the next post. :)

Day 6

6/26/12

Well, today was another SWAT day- and I can honestly say I prayed just as much for you today as I did yesterday. God is good. My prayers would be that you would be protected and have nothing come at you. So even though you were bored, God was listening to me- and I am so grateful for that. I get so many sweet texts from you today. It is obvious you want me in your life. You send me the HOTTEST pic ever of you in uniform and I have to restrain myself to not come through that phone and take a whole lot of advantage of you! You also send me pics of teammates- and that was cool. I prayed for the team, not just my favorite player of it.

The day goes ok for you- we had a reallllllllllllllllllly rough night. Not to dwell on the negative- but I saw beautiful glimpses of your true character come out when you drove flew got to my house really fast just to make sure I was ok. Do you know how scared I was when the doorbell rang? I date you and I was scared out of my mind to know how you figured out where I live. Then I was reminded that is kinda what you do for a living- I am seeing I will have no secrets- if I had any- with you. I bet the people you bust up on have way more terror than I did- because I got to be held by those arms and not cuffed by them. Bad night. BUT in it all- you reminded me that you- and everything you bring to the table- is what I have waited my whole life for. You let me cry to you and you listened- with intent and nothing but protection. It feels so good to be in your hug- to know nothing can get me when I am there. It made me feel really good to know that you- you Kevin Pope- wanted me and came after me. You were doing what guys do when they love a girl. This is all still new to me- so please forgive me if I just looked stunned when you showed up. Not a knight in shining armour- a SWAT teammember with guns. In a charger. Way more awesome than a horse.  Ready to get his girl and take no crap from anyone or anything. This is the moment when I knew everything you said was TRUE. And that you werent taking no for an answer.

I was your girlfriend and you were going to do anything in your power to make me safe. This love came on so fast- but in that instant- I knew I wasnt playing games- this was REAL.  I love the way you hold me. You make all of the ugh, the bad, and the awful go away. It doesnt stick to me when I am with you.

I am free to laugh with you- talk to you openly about anything- sit next to you- kiss you- and just cry crocodile tears with you- and you never change. You are still there for me. You want to be there for me. Oh, this is so new. But I like it. No- I love it. The idea that someone- you- think I am it and are not going to give up on me- can never be penned into words. Or typed I guess. You make me feel things I havent felt- ever. Not just in a long time- but ever. Safety. I have never felt that. Desire and burning passion just to get to know me- not take advantage of me. If this is it- I am so thankful I raised my standards and got what I wanted. Your love- the love you so freely give me- is wonderful. Thank you for wiping my tears, for giving me real advice, and for loving me when I am broken. That is a hard thing to do- but you do it with no hesitations. If this is the stuff dreams are made of- I am so glad I get to live it out with you.